"你自己也不是很sure是否该留下这个孩子" -- don't say

来源: 于 2009-03-05 08:50:00 [博客] [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 本文已被阅读：次

this to a kid/teenager, especially your own kid. It basically tells her that you can give up "her" if it inconvenience you.

Other parts agree.