其实也不是太少见，网上也有很多问这种的，比如

Why does my boyfriend forbid me from talking to other guys but he can talk to females?

所有的回答都差不多：

This is commonly identified as controlling or abusive behavior and many responders say it’s a clear red flag to end the relationship.

End this relationship NOW. He will not change... Any relationship with him will be sick and painful.