No offense, but you do have your fault too.

"我在孩子的事情上一向细心，这次并非疏忽，而是心理上不坚强，因为跟孩子一样，并不欢迎新的学期，所以就当了一只鸵鸟，以幼稚的方法躲避必定会发生的事情。

回到家里，继续逃避，也不为上学做准备，对自己说，到时候才会知道孩子需要什么不需要什么嘛，早操心也是白操心。"

This is the cause of chaos. It is always a good idea to be fully prepared for any change, as your panic could be even amplified in children's eyes.

That all said, it is hard to beleive how "tough" schools are back in China. My son and I won't survive there easily. :)