回复：再多说一句，爱孩子不是给你认为对的，而是给孩子真正需要的。

How are you going to gauge what the child needs? Kindly note the time frame--it's infancy, when the child is prelingual, pre-walking. All he could signal to tell you his discomfort is by crying. Parental love boils down to attending to his crying at this stage. What else will you do? Thinking about his college plan? How hard is it to just pick up the 5-10 lb baby and help her solve her problem?

Oh yes, thanks for headlining this post!