Some "碰", like a friend of mine

She had bad luck and good luck.
Her 1st marriage was very bad. Didn't last long. They divorced when their daughter was 2.
Her 2nd is very good and is getting better over time.

Both times, she got engaged within a week and married within a few months. People kept telling her that her 1st hu*****and was not right for her. But she didn't take her time to digest.