回复：推荐一篇好文章：The Secret to Raising Smart Kids (ZT)

It's simple as a Chinese saying "It's not the ability but the willingness". The parents' job is to push the children to face and will to face the challenge no matter the challenge is small or big as another Chinese saying "We yi shan xiao er bu wei. Wu yi er xiao er bu wei". (s orry, it's really hard to translate into english.) This is also related to the characteristic of the country. We were forced to receive knowledge when we were in China. There is too much freedom in this country. They are always talking about interest no matter what they do. To some extend, interest is fragile bu heavy like whale. It needs support. The motivation is critical support for interest as the water for the whale. Otherwise it will collapse.