孩子觉得我说的话不中听时,拔腿就跑,根本不会等我说完。该怎么对付?

来源: 2019-12-03 19:03:45 [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 本文已被阅读:

 

我是否不该对孩子说这些?
 
比如今天我对她说,让她警惕矮个子男人,近期有研究显示,人们对矮个子男人的偏见是有点道理的。
 

Abraham Buunk, a professor at the University of Groningen in the Netherlands, claimed to have found evidence of the small man syndrome. Researchers at the University found that men who were 1.63 metres (5 ft 4 in) were 50% more likely to show signs of jealousy than men who were 1.98 metres (6 ft 6 in).[5]

In 2018, evolutionary psychologist Mark van Vugt and his team at the Vrije Universiteit Amsterdam found evidence for the Napoleon complex in human males. Men of short stature behaved more (indirectly) aggressive in interactions with taller men. Their evolutionary psychology hypothesis argues that in competitive situations when males, human or nonhuman, receive cues that they are physically outcompeted, the Napoleon complex psychology kicks in: physically weaker males should adopt alternative behavioral strategies to level the playing field, including showing indirect aggression and coalition building.[10]