how do you accept yourself？ 怎样培养自信？

someone asked me on Quora, how do you accept yourself for not having the eye colour you have? This is interesting. It expands over to the humanity and psychology side. How do we learn to accept ourselves? When do we accept ourselves? When do we change for the better? How to we know the difference. To have the wisdom to know the difference, lies in our experience. The experience comes from making mistakes. Some mistakes are worth making than others...