you are a dedicated father and your S20 is very bright

he deserves to get the exceptional education.  Seriously write the best available Common Essay and School-specific Essays with genuine reflection of whom he was and perspective of whom he will be...in CONSISTENT with the stellar LORs from TEACHERS and school counselor...if he will not be admitted with his sports, MIGHT not put too mnuch on the (golf) sports... be ambitious but also reality...