作为父母，孩子的心理你们了解吗？

这是孩子的论坛看到的。有时我觉得，如果你的孩子只是一个above average kid，还是少来一些子坛。在这里呆久了也许会对你孩子的期望过高。

https://www.reddit.com/r/teenagers/comments/7kqqhx/serious_i_hate_my_parents_so_much_and_i_dont_hate/

Hi there r/Teenagers,

So title says all. I'm currently a sophomore, so the results for PSAT and finals came in about a week ago. I was super pleased, having gotten a 1230 in PSAT and a 3.5 GPA.

My results were higher than all my friends!

Well, shit starts to go down when I came home. I'm an Asian kid, so you can probably imagine what's gonna happen next.

"3 Bs? 3.5 GPA? You didn't get a 3.8? No colleges are gonna enroll you."

"1230? Out of 1520? Why are you 300 short? You must be playing video games, that's why. Your friend got 1120? Well he's just dumb."

I hate it. I fucking hate it. I absolutely detest their tone, their voice, their inability to look at the bright side of the situation.

I'm a boy, and that might have sound very weird.

I've dealt with this before. In fact, I'll even consider myself very tough independently. I got depressed when I was around 10, and by myself I've gotten out of the shell. I was proud of it, knowing that I can look after myself and maybe others as well. However, whenever my parents just reject my accomplishments, it hurts. Like a bitch. And I hate it.

I told my parents how I felt, but they would just pull off a trick like "stop complaining, we just want the best for your future son" and "we don't need anything, just you to be successful" when I know it's all a fucking lie. I don't get motivation from someone looking down on me.

Reddit, what should I do? I just want to go to sleep and never do anything again, because my parents would just ignore it. I can't wait to get the crap out of this house, because no matter how bad taxes and life can be, nothing can match this hell where accomplishments die constantly that I call home.

TLDR: I'm Asian, my parents don't acknowledge anything I do, and I hate it. What should I do?

Edit: make it so that everything's a little easier to understand.