俺家推爸跟娃的对话

周二通常是二娃最忙也是最辛苦的一天，俺也知道这天他最累，但总是Push他高质量完成所有活动。昨天俺俩在车里有下面的对话。

"Why do you give me so much to do? I am the busiest person at school."

"How do you know?  There may be some parents just as crazy as I am..."

"Dad, you are not crazy. You are a caring parent."

俺有点意外, "You really think so?"

二娃："Yes, I am really gald that you are always there when I can not pull myself up."

最后这句话让俺很欣慰也很感动。俺也常常纠结推还是不推，推到什么程度算合适。　其实孩子们常常是明白的，他们往往比我们想象的要更懂事成熟。只不过不见得能控制自己，家长给他们的助力，他们是知道的。