回复：我见到有些朋友自己带孩子,很辛苦,但是孩子缺乏和父母

There are always exceptions. In my case, my kids they doing fine, physically and mentally. We are 辛苦, but we really enjoyed it. We also wants to be a role model to th kid: work hard, being good parents. We are not perfect, but we tried our best. I tried to make all kinds chinese cuisine for my kids, they loves them.

I strongly against to send kids back is because the painful experience I had myself. Even today, I still don't know how to communicate "normally" with my parents. I actually get along with my mother-in-law better. Isn't that ironic.