that is not my point.

people tend to forget this: after they take the 10th cake, they forget the importance of the previous 9 cakes. Yes the 10th may the best one, like many of us get the highest degree in the US, but that does not mean the previous 9 ones are useless. For my own child, I try my best to find good things from two sides to train him; i know that is how I can be good comparing to many native people here who has the same degree, experience, etc.