没有有抬杠. I truly believe we, as parents, instead of

blaming kids, should look into ourselves for solutions. If you feel helpless and couldn't establish authority with your kid without hitting them, come here ask for advice on non-violent way of raising kids. Hitting is not a way of education. It is a raw power demonstration. If your 初衷 is to find a better way to educate, please, discuss more on how to deal with kids non-violently, rather than talk about "skills" of hitting, such as how often or how hard one should hit.