类似的问题before - Nowvdaughter in Ivy league college

Let me tell you may daughter’s story.

We started her with a private school because the public school was so bad. The school was all white with very few minority students

My daughter was very outgoing, somehow, she had trouble with making friends in 2nd and 3rd grade. It got so bad that she went to library every recess. Read so many books. I talked to her principle, joined girl scouts. But the problem persisted.

I switched her to publich school and got her into gifted and talented program in 4consisted of equal portions of white, Asian, and black. She was so much happy and flourished at the new school. She had very best friends and was the Studet of the Year at the end of 5th grade.

My daughter is in an Ivy League college now. She turned out be a very outspoken person with many friends.  I am so happy that we moved her to a school that fitted her way better.

I think you have reasons to worry. Maybe it is time to look for a better school for your daughter.