智慧的父母选择沟通 回复：公校也好私校也罢,有多少妈妈感受到了老师的敷衍,或者不公平现象选择忍气吞声的?

communication. communication. communication. make an apointment to meet school staff, tell your views/learn about their views, find a middle point that both agree. keep meeting with them until they are familiar with your ideals and try to work with you toward that ideal. the point or the goal is to see your child grow (important thing is to realize that teachers also share your goal).