3x for all the tips.

yeah, sometimes i do see the positive side of such experience. i.e. i need to also challenge myself and get out of my comfort zone:-)  acturally, at the first fall game season, that jewish girl's mom is the only friend i made and before the all-star nomination, she told me she would not let her daughter attend even if selected as it is too intense. later, she was a bit embarrassed but we both let it go and still keep good relationship. she likes to gossip, and sometimes lots of valuable info is there:-)