I've tried all these years to help him ever since I

met him in college but it seems no use. I believe the experience he had with the police gave him a much better lesson than my kindness. I just helped him get expungement for his records but he still treats me like that. His family didn't even give us a wedding when we got married. My family would like us to be married in my hometown - where we used to work. He asked to go back to his hometown and said they ususlly have big weddings. So I went. Then his family didn't want to have a wedding because they were afraid they had to give others gift money later. I was really upset and my hu*****and said "I won't support them later." I never told my family this. I said we had a big wedding but just no pictures. Still later I asked him to send money to his parents. His sister in law had cancer and needed money after we just got married. I took half of our salaries and borrowed anothe half from my coworkers in China and sent a big amount of money to them. We had no savings at all after we got married. His brothers didn't even give us a penny for our wedding. However, I was taught to be kind to others by my parents. So I still hold onto that belief. My hu*****and was really mean to my mother but my mother still doesn't want me to divorce saying he is nice to you even though he has a bad temper. She didn't want me to marry him at all at the beginning but now I think she's worried it's going to be hard for me with two children. I haven't told them about my new pregnancy yet. I know she would ask me to keep the baby.
It's kind people like you who give the world hope. I'll hope for the best. Thanks