Thanks. I'll obtain a restraining order if he goes to extremes

but I've read too many stories of abusive hu*****ands killing their wife and children. When he gets mad, he looks really dangerous. So I'm afraid of him. He can still go to my work place. He can still break the window and find us before the police gets here. Maybe I worry too much. Actually after the police took him three years ago, he used control over himself when he wanted to hit me. So I should listen to you and other XDJM and not to be afraid.