是的，作父母的总是担心孩子，但是过度担心也太累了。

Teenage problem is across races, not just  for ABCs. Every teen has her/his own problem, don't magnify problems and panick.Enjoy what we have as Chinese American, and pass the value to our kids.老拿自己没有的和别人有的比，却不知别人还羡慕我们呢。