Oh, by the way, I am for going

to top universities if possible. It is always good to go to top universities. However, it is not good at all to go to top universities without a social life at school. For instance, kids can not involve in school social activites because they are from relative poor family. Most of times, top universities require more money too. I would like my kids to a pretty good school not a top school if I believe that my kids may not able to involve school social activites due to our financial. Of course, it is up to what my kids are.