in the same boat with you

Take it easy! It'll pass. As time flies, you'll still miss her. She's just not a good person to take care of your kids and she askes too much from her child. When you feel really down, just reminds yourself that you should still feel grateful that she gave you life. That's what i did. i don't fight with my mom any more because i know i'll feel regretful later when i cannot see her again. Just don't live together with her and don't expect her to help you with anything.