回复：你给娃买衣服，娃自己要了么？你觉得娃有大手大脚的倾向么？

thanks for your reply.

My son's spending style is O.K. now, but he told me he don't want to have big difference on spending with his friend, it is not fair that his friend's family spend a lot on him, our family need to find a way to pay back.

My son told me he need some brand name cloth to match his social group ( this white boy and a couple of other kids in his group). He said a couple of brand name items should be O.K. not necessary for all clothes.

I think clothing is a part of pre-teen's confidence, that's why I got him some.