给comego,看看这个案例吧。You should defend your child's right

It's already debatable whether the child who started a web site really can be called "cyber-bullying" and deserves such a severe punishment. It's even more ridiculous to punish anyone who just *viewed* such a web site. In your daughter's case she didn't even see it!

http://www.boston.com/news/nation/articles/2009/12/14/judge_rules_students_cruel_remarks_online_are_not_unconstitutional/