Thanks for your suggest

Today is my last day for selecting 2010 benefits. According to your suggestion, I just add the option to buy the group legal insurance which would allow me to get legal help from attorneys. But just feel pain if we have to go through the legal process. I know a Chinese couple who finally divorced(he wants, she doesn't for the sake for the daughter) after 4-5 years fighting. He quited the job for not providing the support, and moved out to a different state and was not supporting his daughter finaically(like medical insurance) even when the mom lost her job for a while. I am just wondering if it is worthy to spend that much time and effort to fight for retaining our marriage. At this for now, we can sit down peacefully to talk about share the duty for supporting our kids. I am afraid after a long time fight, even this peace would gone and harm more to every one.