both live miserable life

来源: 于 2013-11-13 14:57:14 [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 本文已被阅读：次

in order to afford things they would not be able to otherwise.

for identical job within the SAME company, 曼哈顿 needs to pay peoples 30-50% more than Jersey.

it is just a commute/living expense premium. nothing else. no reason to feel good about it b/c you make a little extra for shortened life expense and missed family time.