郭太，你这因果关系没搞清楚

美满幸福是种追求，which unfortunately (most of time) not always works out. It's a choice, then hard work, by both parties, plus some luck... 像你这样的精品不多的啦，你男人也应该相当不错。

Whether it works out or not, 孙子孙女总是好的。