Well, don't quickly judge others, that's arrogance too
There is nothing wrong in seeking money. When that person is rich, there is nothing wrong for him to donate.
Sharing a story cannot be considered un-humble because from every angle you look at Bayfamily's post, it's a TYPICAL money management quandary a Bay area family is experiencing. I feel deep inside of you, you are thinking "I am richer than this guy, what made him so flashy?" See, you are not a noble man either :-)