PHD stands for what?

Does that mean "Permanent Head Damage"?

It's that your money or somebody else's? -- Suppose it's yours, who's going to give the say about what?

Folks need your payment to have peace with you? Or to maintain the kinship with you? Then you need that peace or kinship for what use?

I never take any action or inaction under pressure -- and if anybody tries that kind of pressure/coerce on me, I'll just kick the guy's ass away.

I do give money for sure, but it has to come straight from my own free will, happiness and comfort, nothing else.