看玫瑰的时候想起最近看的美剧人生复本。女主的复本有句话特精辟。

她说our lives are marked by the choices that we make. 所以去看看if the grass really is greener 也没错。不过男主的复本也给了一句话， relationships are negatiations, whoever speaks first, kind of loses. ，如此类推男女之间right level of aloof 还是应该保持。