假设孩子不如自己不是好長輩該有的心态。你都能輕鬆搞定的東西孩子也行，除非當年你很痛苦才學會大勝大敗的意思。

If so, I think it is only an unique experience for you since most people don't share this experience.

Have some Faith in the children. 

I am just speaking of a general rule. No need to take what I say personally here.