用英文是因為許多時候我用中文輸入太慢不方便或用的電腦本没有中文輸入。

No, I wasn't being unfriendly. I was referring to Yao' s mindset. Many Chinese men or women share the same mindset. For men here in this forum, this mindset reveals itself  intellectually, and for women in here too. But in a different setting in real life such as in this case involving a westen man living in China taking advantage of women, it turned out ugly as what we are seeing now.

Same mindset, a variety of consequences, this is what I am saying.