除了肉身延长，却精神漸失，我看到另一个矛盾：感情越好的，就越難過。

The stronger the bond between a parent and a child, the more affection they have for each other, the more painful for their separation. Yet, many times in WXC I also came across IDs having suffered greatly from unloving parents. They would need to manage a different kind of pain. So, nothing is absolute. So, try to view the whole event as part of Nature's regulation. We are like clouds in the sky, we could have taken other forms, so would the forms of our relation to others, and we are not supposed to stay fixed. Very soon we will be all gone too. The sky will fill up itself with the drama of other clouds.