建议读读 the power of now。。。
Eckart Tolle is enlightened from Chirstian background. what he teach not so different from Buddha.
But one need to experience the oneness/That/emptiness/buddha nature. understanding is not enough. that's why meditation/spirtual pactise is absolute necessary.
另外个人理解:不夹带私货的爱 = 慈悲