您对宗教的理解有误:不是逆来顺受,而是心知肚明地调解自己内心的烦恼。
给您推荐一本非宗教的好书,它改变了我的人生,也希望它也能给您带来真正的智慧和慈悲:
The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change
by Stephen R. Covey
http://www.amazon.com/Habits-Highly-Effective-People-Powerful/dp/1451639619