偶看到心灵和头脑的分离

偶看到心灵和头脑的分离，人内心的恐惧和无奈。

She got double Co-dependent, Co-dependent on society, live according other's expectation, and co-dependent on love--which is mainly a fantasy

She is afraid of how others say about her, at the same time she is afraid of losing love fantasy.

要么就忘记，要么就承担。可惜两种勇气都没有。于是终生都在一种恍恍惚惚，半死不活的状态下.