中庸不是隐忍

来源: 2010-05-05 17:37:58 [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 本文已被阅读:

孔子曰,以德报怨,何以报德? 以德报德,以直报怨

(不是以暴抗暴,也不是隐忍)


My understanding, return the bad behavior with principle! like Gandhi's non-violence principle, if one got principle and self respect, set boundary at beginning, things won't go to that bad.