这印证了俺的理论：Genuine love is a self-discipline!

那有谁不服的，敢与俺打擂吗？
大多数人分不清爱和欲，总把desire误以为是love。

Love is not a feeling, but an action and an activity.
Love is the will to extend one's self for the purpose of
nurturing one's own or another's spiritual growth.
Falling in love is not love, but a genetically
determined mating behavior.