sigh,
Taiwan is part of China. your 23 million people voice is nothing compare with 1.3 blion Chinese and other 200 million oversea Chinese. It can not be reason, I do not blame you to pick up your weapon and fight. Because you have lived in that kind of environment for your whole life.
But you can not blame Chinese to recover their land either. Chinese are willing to pay it with their ultimate price. No price can be higher than the price of war. How much more you can ask for it? That is our debt to our ancestors. and that is our vital interest to our nation's strategic future.
The conflicts of antional interests is generally solved by force. I do not see any exception on the Taiwan issue. Just as you said, let's be prepared and have a war.