Idk, we hate each other but need to live together

There's no choice so we tolerate each other or ignore the complaints. At the end of the day, we can't afford to live apart, with our one permanant house, our three kids and the assets mixed together it's impossible. So yeah, the only thing I can say to those smarty pants preachers of marriage is "Just shut up and keep on living". Everyone is dreaming of breaking apart but the status quo is the best option. So why bother to sweeten the deal?