Thanks

It should be pretty easy, like you said.  :) thanks again.
1. It is hard to find the balance.

2. White women have always envied us for not having to shave.  When my daughter was little, I never thought she would have the same problem.  We grew up in china without shaving.  No one said we would have to shave the underarms.  of course, I don;t remember wearing sleeveless back then.  Seeing my kid having to shave arms and legs also seems daunting to me.

I like what you told me.  I will take it easy.