回复：回复：谢谢。过奖了。晚秋也只是业余时间编织一些想到的、喜欢的款式而已：）

Indeed, we have no control over our past experience or what others have done.  But we do have control over our own emotions and feelings -- if we try.  I believe through writing one can chanel out his/her feelings (including sad feelings) so that he/she can enjoy a more positive and pleasant emotional state in real life.