being 40 is not the end of the world

I don't understand why we (chinese) feel that way. Some beautiful women have posted their beautiful pictures but they call themselves "Da Ma", etc. I am in my 40's and never feel better about myself. I don't want to go back to my 20's (fun being that age? yes, but so immature, insecure, and miserable in so many ways), I don't want to go back to my 30's either, because i was trying so hard to figure out and find out who I was. I've never been so comfortable as I am in my 40's (some winkles? yes! but so what?!) I am more confident, witty, and fun. I still wear the same size of jeans in high school and understand better about fashion and style.

Being 40 is fabulous and wonderful because I have accomplished so much and understood things much much better...

Oh gosh girls...treat yourself and the other girls better. 40 is the new 20, a much better 20...