当读到你的文字，我可以感觉到你的痛，我的心也痛。

很想告诉你，我仿佛看到多年前的我，曾经认为我这辈子只能为我父母活着。可是那真的是时过境迁。
过去的事情已经发生，我们没法控制，将来又有谁知道呢？我们唯一可以做的就是珍惜现在。
If you choose to be miserable at a miserable time, then you will be miserable; if you chose to be happy in happy time, you will be happy; did you notice there are people choose to be miserable even in happy time? For you, my dear friend, I know it's hard to do, but you have to choose to be happy even in this miserable time.