Just joking: FWIW, men won't hurt themselves if they are

at the either end of the spectrum, but never somewhere in between. They are safe if they stand on high moral ground, which is no sexual relationship outside their marriages. And most men probably could get away with it should they take these kind of relationships in an uttermost casual way. In other words: if you give it a f**k, it is going to f**k you.

Standard disclaims: blah, blah,...blah.