his problem is he is too selfish when it comes to women

he wants girls to be traditional, never argue with a man, stop working after getting married, like cooking etc.. There is nothing wrong with it if that is what the girl wants, but not just because he wants her to.

In another word, he is all about what a girl "should" do to make a man happy, and never thinks about what he can do to make a woman happy. No woman wants to be around a man like that.