严以律己，宽以待人。做得到吗？

今天的报纸上有这样的说法

Folks with the courage to be imperfect have the compassion to be kind to themselves first and then to others. Vulnerability is the birth place of authentic joy, creativity, belonging, love and humour.是否说，对自己严厉的，对他人严厉的机会也高？

俺要自省。