人生的陷阱很多的。想平安，幸福，富裕的走过来并不容易的

看来这成了你的咒了。我也没什么智慧的。就是觉得以后凡事要先为自己考虑。另外，你那女儿大了，恐怕会飞的...所以，你还是应该花点心思想想自己的以后生活，不再象你从前那样匆忙决定（或许是命运的驱使）。

maybe start looking for a partner again. I know it might be hard at this moment but you might not want the opportunity passing by either.

with your intelligence you might be able to secure you and your daughter's future financially. this should be your focus.

last, being an happy person regardless what happened. pls do not live in the past. do not live some other one's life. If i were you, I just kick all that stuff out completely, nothing stays, absolutely nothing, never ever a thought about it. You have the freedom to have a new life. Use the power and have a great life journey from now. good luck