Love Never Hurts

来源: 真爱不伤害 于 2013-12-24 08:12:39 [] [博客] [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 阅读数 : (948 bytes)

It is my first post on my blog.

This is a thought I had about a month ago. True love never hurts.

Some people say: I am hesitant to love as I am afraid of being hurt. Lots of sayings go around in this world like: Love like you have never been hurt.

If you get hurt because of love, the love is not pure or true.The love that is not true is an investment. You do something with an expectation of return even if you might not realize it. That explains why you feel bitter, disappointed, hurt when you don't have the true love.

Here is a key feature to differentiate true love from not: you have no expectation of return from the other party. The return can be emotion, labor, finance, time anything else. Any return is a surprise to you as you do not expect it. When there is love, there might be some return or reward but that is the by-product not your expectation.


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• 你这个观点和我闺蜜老公的说法是一致的， -波斯猫- ♀ 给 波斯猫 发送悄悄话 波斯猫 的博客首页 (66 bytes) () 12/24/2013 postreply 09:33:48

• 超过50%的时候带给彼此的是正能量就可以了。 -longhand- ♂ 给 longhand 发送悄悄话 longhand 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/24/2013 postreply 10:09:44

• 说的没啥错误，但是 -塞上孤星- ♂ 给 塞上孤星 发送悄悄话 塞上孤星 的博客首页 (120 bytes) () 12/24/2013 postreply 12:33:30

• 我知道什么地方不对劲儿， -波斯猫- ♀ 给 波斯猫 发送悄悄话 波斯猫 的博客首页 (86 bytes) () 12/24/2013 postreply 13:21:28

• 这听着象真空里得爱 -银花花- ♀ 给 银花花 发送悄悄话 银花花 的博客首页 (82 bytes) () 12/24/2013 postreply 14:17:59

• 这种想法可以毁人一生的。爱当然要互相的。单恋怎么会有幸福。 -yukimama- ♀ 给 yukimama 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/25/2013 postreply 07:56:38

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