蹲监狱和出轨的关联

本帖于 2013-07-28 15:29:49 时间, 由普通用户 塞上孤星 编辑

Barbra Streisand - The Way We Were

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今天慢慢读到这一章节:

 

 

“We suirvived, but even so, we crossed over to the otherside. We were gradually moving away from the world of the living towards the realm of shadows. Stripped of everything that had made up our former lives, each day we drew colser to the grave. This detachement was difficult. Because of our youth, we were vibrant with passions, impulses and rebellion. But we had to stifle them, and learn to live without them, in order to stop suffering. Paradoxically, this anguish was intoxicating.  The darkness enabled me to convers with death, to venture dangerously close to it,......”

 

这里有人大概说出轨是一个错误,人们在不断上演着出轨继而失败的故事,让理智没有passion的人笑看出轨而又回归的人,演出着一幕一幕的无用的没有价值的出轨的经历。

 

我想我们出轨的生命在某些人的眼里如同在监狱里生活20年的人,狱中的她说到,"因为年轻,我们充满着激情,冲动和反抗。但是我们不得不压抑,学会去除内心的激情,冲动和反抗去生活,为的是停止遭受折磨。"

 

不出轨了,就是将自己放进了自己情感的监狱,

出轨了,就是释放自己的激情,冲动和反抗对配偶不满的情愫。

 

所以无论怎样生活,我们都是鲜活的生命,不应当受到任何的审判?

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